Topic 主題：How to use OS in a wedding? 如何舉行開放空間的婚禮

Number 編號：Sun C6

Convenor 召集人： Laura

Participants (including Bumble Bees) 參與人員：Laura Enana Jimbo Shawn

Insights 討論內容：

Wedding is once in a life time experience for most people. It also gathers a lot of people with the common focus on the couple. These diverse group from two family/friend actually represents a fair amount of wisdom to tap in.

如何用OS可不失慶祝樂趣又不失group wisdom? <How to use OS in a wedding to both have celebration and keep the group wisdom?>

在前置作業用還是當天?其實都可以，Enana曾幫忙籌備一個，因為這個COUPLE認識不同FIELD的人聚在一起討論要貢獻什麼節目<When to use it? In prep or the day? Actually both. Enana helped a couple to plan one. This couple has network into different field, they got together and talked about what performance to contribute.>

若婚禮來用一定很好玩 <It’ll be fun to use in a wedding dinner. >

Wedding dinner 之前兩家人在當天下午可舉行OS討論祝福兩couple但主要目的是家人用緬懷兩人小時候的事情來SAY GOODBYE認清他們已經是一個家庭的事實。Theme 會怎麼訂？「建立新家庭」對新組成的家庭和原本的家庭都是。「建立新家庭的祝福─給xx和oo的結婚禮物」所有討論內容都還DOCUMENT所以有些不知如何一對一講的還可以一對多講然後被doc起來。<We can have a OS before wedding dinner for the two families that afternoon to talk about the fact that a new family is born. Main purpose: remembering stories for the couple. The theme can be something like:” Establishing a new family” or “Blessing the new family—Wedding gift for xx and oo”>

如果在WEDDING DINNER用TIME & SPACE會像什麼樣子？<How will time and space look like if we use in the wedding dinner?>

一定是cafeteria 然後準備迎接驚喜<We got to use cafeteria and then be prepared to be surprised.>

若要大人安心講話，要請BABY SITTER或STORY TELLER或…才能讓大人安心講話<For the adults to talk comfortably, there must be baby sitter or story tellers to take care of the kids.>

大家都會穿得很漂亮，不能讓大家坐在地上 <People will wear their beautiful outfit. Don’t let people sit on the ground.>

Jimbo: The best thing is to think it’s not my wedding. There will be argument. Who to invite? How? If I walk into the wedding with the mindset of the four principles, how can I be disappointed? I am lucky I had four weddings in different places. (Taipei, Tainan, US, Goverment) The only reason I am getting married is to spend my life with this person. Relax and enjoy the chaos/confusion/conflicts of the wedding. All of that is because single life is dying and new life is born. Carefully embrace the law of two feet. You can always have your ceremony your way.

(Eg. Catered Indian food in a park dressed in costumes. Park is free and great. Near the entrance of Young Min Shan. A baseboard field size. 涼亭for food. ALE used it. There is a park guy you can talk to.)