Topic 主題:男人與女人之間的和諧 Peace between men & women

Number 編號:Sat B7

Convenor 召集人:Ellen

Participants (including Bumble Bees) 參與人員:Julia,Dick,Gail,Pamela,Laura,Jimbo,Shawn,怡敬

Insights 討論內容:

l          Book----Family Value,--Family Value

l          Don’t like to fight, but don’t agree on anything –don’t agree – talk , maybe go separate ways , get a new prescriptive

--Trying to cougar someone else , sometime keep quite

--Physical sometime, or with word emotion

--Though to fight when disagree

l          Some women taught to keep quiet

l          Jimbo-MCC in 1986 – bus – women would elbow to get women the bus

l          Shawn- Women have difficult communication

l           Ellen – Puppetries vacations y. the two success

l           Gail – Guessing is living in the past

-         I hope  what you would do in the future

A lot of un-Pease  between is based on assumption or expectative q what should/ would be , not what is.

l          Dick – facilitate what is happening rather than what you think ought to be happening.

l          婚姻的結合並不只是2個人睡在一張床上,而是背後的雙方的家族都躺在這張床上

l          Peace + not-peace ŕ Peace at a deeper level

l          Shave feelings honestly

l          A good fight clears the air

l          Pseudo please not real peace